Thursday, December 24, 2009

add www.jumpusa.com/ to the scammer, maimer, and rip off list

www.jumpusa.com

-Bait and switch
-Will steal your money
-Will steal your identity
-Will maim you or your player
-Owned by Luke Lowrey

Stay away from them.

Rip Off: Luke Lowery and www.theverticalproject.com

Stay away from www.theverticalproject.com . Nothing but a bait-and-switch site lead by known confidence scammer Luke Lowery. The man has no interest in legitimate business and improving athletes. He just wants money. His methods are dangerous and will maim you. His research and advice is like that of someone who has never played sports before. His web site in intentionally confusing and poorly assembled so you can't find all the fine print.

Do a web search about his products and include "rip off" in the search parameters. Do an online search at the Better Business Bureau. www.bbb.org. The truth will be revealed.

I've heard rumors from insiders they keep a tally of how many people they hurt and rip off and wear it like a badge of honor.

Save you money and protect your identity. Stick to reputable folks like Gannon Baker. Or even just use youtube.




Sunday, December 13, 2009

Preview of the Spring 2010 teams

It didn't occur to me until yesterday but one of the winter league teams is comprised mostly of the project starting line up for the spring 11s team. When I mentioned it to another parent they laughed at me and said "you just noticed that now?".

To me, that's the wrong approach to take. The girls should be spread out and have to play with other teammates so they can become more rounded. Having the same girls play together all the time will help them win as a team but it will hurt their long-term, individual development. The program web site clearly states the 9-12 divisions are about individual development. But a winning record for the program pets is being given a higher priority.

What really stinks is that in an effort to make it appear Ben will try and balance the teams. Girls like my daughter will be forced to play on the "B" team and they will get constantly crushed in tournaments.

Ben looks to be struggling between keeping pet parents happy and the long term development of the overall program. The loser will be the girls who are not program pets in the short term and the overall program in the long term.

Gee I was right after all

Well after I mentioned a possible issue about playing time and got an absolute denial of the possibility, the playing time was more closely watched this week and Ben even reminded the coach during the game to get the girls all their minutes.

What's frustrating is the push back I get from just offering a "heads up". Now I'm being pretty harsh and critical. From Ben's point of view, he's got parents riding is butt all the time about playing time. I was one of the last year too. Yes... I was a bad AAU parent. But I have tried to give back by constant volunteering to help make the program go. An AAU program does not work without help from parents. I've also learned to hold my tongue more and let things work themselves out on their own. But something tells me no matter how much I volunteer, support the teams, and try to help, I'll be in Ben's "in" crowd where he'll speak more than 4 words to me without me or my wife initiating the conversation. And that's just his personality. I don't know he does it to be arrogant. But it's a "what have you done for me lately" AAU world.

Sunday, December 6, 2009

Power Struggle

AAU leadership is a lot like a child. They want to be in control, told they are being good, and don't like to admit they are doing bad. They like having power and if you're not a top tier player, you better not question. They hide behind the guise of running their program like a high school or college team so they can push players around. The truth is, unless the club has a huge program with lots of players trying to get, the mid tier player does have a limited amount of power and influence when it comes time for state or nationals and they need to ensure a full bench is present. It makes me laugh when the mid and lower tier players are strong armed to play nationals. Yea, I'm going to drop $1,000 and use vacation time so we can travel out of state and my daughter can sit on the bench while the top tier players can all the big-game exposure. Sorry Ben, you gotta do more for us now for me to commit to that.

The girls are in a Winter league right now. The league is made of 3 teams with a combination of 10U-12U players on each team. Each girl is supposedly guaranteed 10 minutes of playing time. This is to attract younger players so the rosters can be filled out. But don't be fooled: It's still the top tier players and coaches pets that get the most playing time.

My daughter told me she didn't get her full 10 minutes yesterday. I'm not entirely sure so I mentioned it to the program director and possibly something to remind his coaches of. He got defensive and stated the coach subbed girls out 11 times. Hate to break it to you Ben, multi substitutions doesn't mean each girl is getting 10 minutes. Not even indirectly. My daughter didn't play the last 11 minutes of the second 16 minute half. She got about 5 minutes the first half and about 2 minutes at the start of the second. Easy math. While I can understand him wanting to protect his coach, fact is his argument was incredibly unintelligent. Instead of simply saying, "I'll remind the coaches", he had to unsuccessfully go for a position of power.

If you're not a top tier player and you have an issue, you'll get squashed. We even had an incident where a top tier player (who was a coaches pet) shoved my daughter during the game because my daughter scored the first 4 points of the game. My daughter looked to the coach, coach just shrugged her shoulders because the top tier players family and coached family are close. I brought it up to the coach and program director. Anything get done? Was the top tier player told to stop acting like a spoiled baby? Nope. Ben and the coach twisted it so my daughter was wrong.

It's funny when you read the team web site: It's a random collection of Ben's thoughts. Very unorganized and hard to follow. It has sections criticizing type of girls. Princesses, drama queens, etc. He uses it as his own personal blog. Then it goes onto to say you shouldn't write/blog anything bad about the program.

Give us break Ben. We know the mid tier girls won't get as much time and attention. They can't glorify you and provide the ego stroke that fuels you. But at least pretend to care about the mid and low tier girls in the program. Let them and their parents get an even shake every now and again. It'll teach your top tier players and parents some humility, team work, and sportsmanship.It something Ben preaches but does not practice.

I'll be writing down the times my daughter goes in and out of the game. If there's a problem, I'll present it. Maybe you could critique my handwriting to find a way for me to be partially at fault.

Sunday, November 29, 2009

Even the crowd can see it.

The daughter of the head coach of Team A is an aggressive, talented player. But she has no vision for the court, doesn't understand how to let a play develop, and is a ball/glory hog. If she could see the plays developing and was a better teammate, she would elevate her game and team to a whole new level.

And college basketball fans can pick up on it instantly.

Last night the AAU club program my daughter plays for has a chance to play at half time of a college mens game. They took girls (who were in town and interested) from our 10,11, and 12 teams and created 2 teams to play for a few minutes in front of a big crowd. The coliseum has about a 14k seating capacity and it was about 1/3 full last night.

The daughter of coach A took the ball up for her team and you could see it in her eyes... she wasn't looking for anyone open. She was looking how she could get the ball to the hoop. She scored a couple times and did one move that made the crowd "OOooo" (but got blocked).

The girls only played for about 9 minutes and in that short period of time. I was allowed to move to center court just off to the side of the scorers table to watch. So I was in the area of some very knowledgeable college basketball fans who paid a good amount of money to get the seats they had. Not just your causal fans

I could her the comments from the fans change from "wow she's awesome" to.... and this is a direct quote from a fan who had court-side seats... to "Not much of a team player". They picked that out in that short period of time.

One could argue "Oh she just got caught up in the moment". No, this is the norm. I've learned not to start these kind of conversations but somehow I end up having someone say it to me or I'm within and ear shot of the conversations. I've heard other parents state that their daughters avoid being on her team for that reason. As a fan of the program, it's really frustrating because 1) It's allowed to go on, 2) it tears down team chemistry, and 3) its hurting this girls development. She developing some dangerous habits now that are going to have really negative impact if she chooses to continue to play in high school or college.

But there is hope. This past fall season Team A's head coach realed her daughter in and forced her to use her team more. Perhaps she needs time to develop that skill and break those bad habits. Maybe.

It was a fun experience and my daughter did well on defense (one steal and a block) and took a couple shots in that short amount of playing time.

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

1st post.

I'm not even sure if I'll stick with this or not. But I feel I need a sounding board. And if nobody ever reads this, well that's just fine. My intent is to voice my opinion for someone, somewhere in internet land to read it. I will say that I've voiced my opinion and concerns in the past and it's impact our experience. More on that later.

This is for my opinion and my opinion only. If you disagree, you are welcome to comment. But understand this is not a "tell all" of any sort of dirty secrets of the program. i won't even claim that my words represent actual events. Why do I say this? It's so if by some strange chance anyone from the program reads it, they can't say I'm bad mouthing anyone or anything.

My daughter is in a AAU basketball program. It's been a mostly positive experience but there's some negative aspects to it.

At the heart of the program, the intent is to develop girl basketball players into better athletes so that they perhaps can play at the high school, college, or even pro level. One girl from the program is in the WNBA.

It's run much like a college or advanced high school program. You have to earn your playing time. While they try and work in all skill levels, if you're not a top player, your game minutes may be limited unless your team has a huge lead or is getting blown out.

The program is directed by one person, call him Ben. There is a board of directors however I think they may in name only. Brian runs the show and makes the rules. Which is fine with me because he's the one that started it all. I simply don't understand why it's called a board of directors instead of a parent committee.

My daughter is a solid player and is improving but is not a star player in her age group. She'll have 2 teams to pick from next spring: Team A with the top players and good coaches (moms of 2 of girls on the team). Team B with the "leftovers" and a coach who is a high school student and member of the program. The student is a good coach but she's not at the level of the mom coaches simply from lack of experience.

On Team A, the head coach is the mom of a very aggressive point guard who doesn't like to give up the ball. Many of the players and parents have complained about this. My daughter played for this coach in the fall (AAU's primary season is spring but has fall and winter opportunities as well). The coach did a great job reeling in her daughter and getting her to use her teammates more. But she has a way to go to reach the level of what an elite point guard should be (my opinion). A fantastic coach. Demands maximum effort no matter your skill level and is encouraging the same to all. Privately I'm sure she's harder on her own kid but that comes with the territory.

The assistant coach is also a mom of a player on Team A. She's different. She always gives me the impression she's trying to establish a dominant position when talking with her. I never get a sense of just chatting with someone. It's entirely possible I'm reading her wrong. Her level of enthusiasm is noticeably different for the top players.

Now is this any different from what happens in college? Likely not. But is it appropriate for elementary school aged girls who are trying to learn confidence and teamwork? To me, you want to offer more encouragement  to your less talented players in hopes they develop.

Ben, the director of program has a similar attitude. It's never harsh. But noticeably absent. Reading the site is like reading his personal blogs and it boasts of achievement and praise from parents of players who he helped through adversity. But read a little deeper and it's from parent of top tier players. Absent is any accolades from a player who was just average and raised her game to make her high school team. Now maybe it's a case of that doesn't make for interesting reading. 

I try and volunteer to help with as much as I can. I run the clock or keep the stats as I don't know enough about basketball to really coach in a game. While waiting for a game to start, Ben was next to me and I observed the interactions with players and parents. He notices everyone one of them going by. But who are the ones that get more than just a polite smile? The top tier players and their parents. The average players and their parents get a courteous head nod and that's it.

Now maybe this is just a part of a larger overall sociological mindset I'm not getting. The program has skill session/practices where player from 3 different teams and ages work on fundamentals. I had some paperwork to catch up on so I sat away from everyone and watched my daughter between pages. When I was done, I observed the parents. The ones with the top players were all grouped together and chatting away. There is even one dad of a top player who likes to keep to himself but is drawn in.

Is it a big "clique" I'm just not aware of? Maybe.

More later.